SWAG Bucks.........

Ok so I have avoided this long enough. I must share. I joined this swag bucks. You get bucks for using their tool bar and using their search engine. I already have 7 and just signed up. It is reeally cool stuff you can get, books, gift cards, and so much more. If you have not checked it out please do.



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Thanks:))

Two words: Divorce SUCKS!!!

This is my parents a mere 11 months ago.





Sorry guys but tonight is a venting night for sure. It is official. My parents will be divorcing after 39 year marriage. Was it perfect? No. But does anyone have a perfect marriage? NO. So here it is... After meeting and getting prego at the age of 14 and 15 my parents got married. Then they got a divorce because my mom lost the baby. They got remarried and had my brother. Split again, then remarried again with me, my brother, and sister at the third wedding. We were actually in our parents third wedding weird I know. But it is also all I have ever known. Their marriage was hard. At the age of 19 my mom and dad had 3 kids, a miscarriage and a full hysterectomy. So we were raised in a crazy, loud home. Then we moved to the country to get away from all the drama. We did well as a family. It was not ever perfect, but we were HAPPY. Then we grew up dad said he waited for us till he left. Thanks.:( So now I am a 34 married woman with 4 kids. And still want to cry like a baby. The only thing I have ever known was this family, as dysfunctional as it was, it was mine. Now what are we going to do about holidays? Really kill joy. I HATE it. What do I tell my kids? Will I ever be able to befriend her(his girlfriend)? What, about my kids don't they count? Oh man, this has been happening it did not just happen today. BUT I don't like it. And neither does the God I serve. Why not reconcile? Why do we choose sin? It is only good for a while. Then it brings death. I HATE THIS. I am not quite sure who to be angry at. One day it's mom the next it's dad. Hard for me I am have always been daddy's girl Now daddy is unavailable. Someone else is taking up all his time. I looked at statistics all afternoon, and wanted to throw up. There are 3 easy steps for a quick divorce, do it online, get the best attorney and Win. Really this is what we have become. Get out of Marriage free, quick ,and easy. Makes me want to throw up. Sorry but this is my reality right now, and frankly it just hurts!


Vicki

It's all about the 80's

Can you tell what kind of party we had? Well you see I am the MNO(Mom's Night Out) coordinator for our home school group. And we like to have fun, like totally! Shala a friend of mine wanted to host this event. And it totally rocked, it was awesome, rad, narly, and sweeeet. We had 12 moms show up in their outfits. We played air guitar, had 80's trivia, and had a dance off. The night was filled with so much hairspray(aqua net), fun, laughter, food, and, prizes. We all vary in age from 20's they were babies in the 80's to not so 20. Our group is amazing. Hope you enjoy some pics, and may some of them bring back fond memories.


Oh talk about memories. ATARI rocks and will never die!!!


Our hostess with the mostest. Shala:0


What I am doing here? Sorry to even show this picture but it's my inspiration to get off my butt!!!




Jody, meet Jenny she is our Co-op president. You could learn a lot from her. She not only can sport pink well, she can be a leader. Too cool huh?




What can I say there has to be a good one in the bunch. Thanks to Lari for being a "good girl".



Friends to the end:)) Tabitha and Cori.

State Fair of Texas

We recently took on the Great State Fair of Texas. We had not been in 5 or 6 years. Last time we went we only had 2 kids. We now have 4 kids and going anywhere like this is a huge commitment. But we made a plan and did it. We got free tickets. So that was a bonus. I was not aware that there are so many ways to get into the fair for free. Anyhow we left at 8:30am, and headed for the Big D. We arrived right at 10 the morning and the races wee off. We walked inside and got our oooo's and aaa's over with and headed to the puppet show. It was cool, but the little girl that went up stole the show. She was the cutest, chubbiest little thing that was afraid of the puppets. But by the end of the show she was kissing and hugging them. Then we had lunch. I asked my kids what they wanted and the resounding response was "anything on a stick" Can someone give a shout out for Corny dogs, nachos, burgers, fries, chicken on a stick, and sausage on a stick? That was our yummy lunch. Then after that yummy meal we headed to the backyard circus. This guy has been doing this forever The kids are the circus, nuff said. well all my kids got called on then Owen decided to leave the stage. When he wanted to go back up the man said sorry you have to come when I call you. So instead of wanting to leave I opened up some candy. I had to get pics of my other 3 kids still in the circus. We then went to the museum, and all other kinds of shows. But our all time favorite............Well it was the bird show. Oh my it wa incredible. The way the birds came flying down from the Texas Star(Ferris wheel) it was majestic. Everything about this show was interesting, amazing, and just plain great. Abby Rowland and I were called up to take pics of the owl. He was flying right to my face. I was scared, and so excited to be up there. Then we did it. The Ferris wheel, at the highest point you are 250 feet up in the sky. I was so worried about me and Owen. But guess what? We loved it. Now Bryce, Tanner, and Lucy they were a little scared. I laughed so hard, Bryce my macho hubby was shaking, had his eyes closed, and was biting his lip. It was worth the $6.00 a person we paid just for his faces. After a day of walking eating more, and plenty of memories. We sat down for the parade, and light show. We had no idea we sat right in front of the fire. Oh boy was it hot. You will clearly but mine and Lucy's face that we enjoyed it. After the show we got in the car, and headed back home. It was truly an amazing day as a family. Enjoy the pics.

Oh My!!

It has been so long since I blogged I almost forgot my sign in:( So much has been happening around these neck of the woods. Gretchen updated my blog for fall but......I can't handle the flies:(( Tanner(My little bear) turned 8. We started co-op. Lucy is growing up too fast. My (honey sugar, mama's baby) Owen will be 5 in no time. And Colin sleeps like a teenager. We no longer have livestock. The cow has been in my freezer for a month now, and we pick up the pig in the next couple days. Some of you may think this is gross but, the cow is Delicious!! Hopefully the pig will be the same. We will be using some of him to do our annual make tamales as a family tradition. The kids are doing Fabulous at home school. Mom is sticking to her do what we can routine. And surprisingly we are getting more done than ever before when I had the plans all written out! We just went to the great State Fair of Texas. And it was the most fun we have had as a family in a long time. You no trips usually get some one all wound up (like me). You work so hard to do something fun then you get annoyed at any little thing? Well that did not happen we just loved and enjoyed each other. Longer post with pics later:) I am doing well emotionally, still seeing my counselor. I have my I really want Henry days but I can still live too. Big accomplishment as just 6 weeks ago I wanted to hide in a cave. Bryce is getting work. Things have been interesting this year, but God never lets us down. We are just Thankful that the Lord loves us, and wants to see us grow. Sure hope all is well for you! Be encouraged, and of Good cheer. Promise not to let it be so long next time.

Sometimes a girl needs to be surrounded by PINK

Since we are out numbered, 2(girls) to 4(boys). we surround ourselves with prettiness. All this girl needs is a beautiful pink dress, pink teddy bear, and PINKIE PINK(her special blanket). Life is good when you surround yourself with good things. Like Christ,good friends, good food, and fellowship. What are you surrounded with? Show me who you hang out with and I will show you who you are!

Phil 4:8

Finally, Brethren whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is lovely, whatever is pure, whatever is good repute, if there is any excellence and is anything worthy of praise, let your mind dwell on these things.

Two weeks.....

ago my body was preparing to say good bye to my baby boy. I had no idea. I am so sorry but I have been thnking. We really don't no what tomorrow brings. Hold your spouse tight, kiss your kids, sing them a song, and be KIND!! My heart is hurting. I trust Jesus. And would like to be used by the Lord to encourage people to LOVE. Have a great day.



Vicki